Yes, You Really Are
“I’m not really an asshole” said the entrepreneur sometime after showing up to the lunch meeting 35 minutes late and calling his four previous technical founders a failure, a loser, a jerk and a douchebag in that order, “I just act like one because people won’t give me what I want.”
I laughed and said “That is the very definition of asshole.”
He was surprised I didn’t want to work with him by the end of the meal.